It is common for preschool children to play “house” and engage in mock romances with their 5-year-old peers. Preschool is the first time away from adults and surrounded by equals, which is why children often use this freedom by claiming boyfriends and girlfriends and pretending to get married on the playground. This emphasis on the opposite sex within a newfound freedom is similar to when young adults enter college.
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Racial differences are only skin-deep when it comes to relationships. And while some people look for comfort in a partner with the same race and background, they may be surprised to find distinct similarities of a person from a different culture.
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American women are often considered lucky to live in a society that allows them to be equal to men. Women can vote, own property and have careers. But in the dating world, it’s rare to see a woman approach a man, ask for his number or even take him out on a date. Many girls still want to be old-fashioned when it comes to dating, but that might be changing as men and women continue to become more equal.
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October is my favorite month of the year. And while my birthday and the launch of football season are two prime reasons for this, I also believe Halloween is definitely the best holiday of the year.
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Going on dates in college is often predictable, overrated and sometimes a complete waste of money. For those who’ve just started dating, the stereotypical dinner and a movie gets old fairly quickly; and for those who are in long-term relationships, they often find themselves stuck in a routine lacking that initial excitement and spark from the “honeymoon stage.” So, for that special someone, why not take advantage of what San Diego has to offer and step out of the box into an uncommon, yet entertaining, date.
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Dysfunctional, unstable and untrusting are words that may come to mind when thinking of a couple that fights and argues regularly. While this may be true in some cases, one should reconsider the negative stigma associated with fighting. Yes, fighting can actually be good for a relationship, if done effectively.
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In our day and age we can do just about everything with the click of a mouse. We check the “feed” and “tweet” every five minutes; we manage our finances, get our daily dish of celebrity news and gossip and stay up-to-date on our Fantasy Football league stats. So, of course, it would make complete sense to find oMr. or Ms. Right online too, right?
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Anyone who has been in a relationship knows jealousy is the key ingredient to preparing a highly poisonous meal. It can cause tension, stress and destroy relationships.
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First dates can be gruesome. From the moment you sit down for dinner, you’re already preparing yourself to survive the interview-like meeting. And before you give the person a chance to break the first-impression mold, you have already potentially put them into a category: “friend,” “hook-up,” “girlfriend / boyfriend” or “none of the above.”
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Unquestionably, San Diego State has some of the most attractive people on campus. At least, that is a general stereotype I am perfectly happy perpetuating. The problem many of my friends and I face when we admire attractive people on campus is that we’re not sure who would also be interested in us; and it’s not because we’re out of their league. Actually, it’s because we bat for a different team.
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Friendship is intimate. Close friends are people you tell everything to, share experiences with and learn enough about to read their emotions and gain trust in their opinions.
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Some people just get along better with the opposite sex. You’ve heard the type: “Women are too catty for me,” or “I feel like she gets me.” In all honesty, there are always a few bad apples in any basket. Heck, there’s variety like you wouldn’t believe: sour to sweet and raw to bruised. But, when your significant other starts playing the gender card, excusing his or her “friend time” with the opposite sex, it’s going to get heated.
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Making a serious relationship commitment while in college can mean anything from promising to remain monogamous to saying “I love you.” For some, it means much more than that: getting married.
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With some workdays averaging around 12 hours, the office space can become a breeding ground for relationships.
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Going on a romantic date shouldn’t be expensive. You don’t necessarily need to spend more money to make a connection and have fun with someone. Saving some cash never hurts, especially with this economy, and by opting for some alternative activities instead of a fancy dinner and a movie, you can impress your date with your prowess of creativity.
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These experienced women will readily sink their teeth into a younger companion
Mrs. Robinson was the classic middle-aged seductress: sexy, experienced and seeking younger men. Commonly known as “cougars,” these older women are on the prowl for younger men and are no longer hiding those preferences. Today, there are older female celebrities, such as Demi Moore, flaunting their younger arm candy in public and new sitcoms such as “Cougar Town” flooding television programming. Even on a local level, the Del Mar Racetracks have celebrated the prevalence of cougar women by holding a Miss Cougar Del Mar contest this year. While cougars are becoming less of a taboo subject in mainstream society, many onlookers are still curious to what is behind the attraction between both parties.
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It’s a question that has plagued men since the beginning of time, a puzzle more complicated than the Thursday sudoku. Men have put people on the moon and created the Internet, but there’s still no resolution to this age-old question: “What do women want?”
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He’s so cute, charming and sexy. You just have to have him. The problem is, you can’t. It may be a lot easier and less stressful if we could just accept this fact, but unfortunately, for most people, not being able to have someone that they want only causes them to want them more.
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You just started dating a wonderful guy and the chemistry between you two is absolutely sensational; he makes you laugh, takes you out on utterly romantic dates and in one of those long-term girlish perspectives, you can vaguely picture him on one knee holding out a little box containing a shiny diamond ring. Now, this might all sound great on paper, minus one minor detail: He’s your friend’s ex.
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The sizzling summer sun has begun to shine on new summer romances. Those who want a hot and steamy summer fling to last longer than their fairground ice cream cone need to put extra effort into it. Here are some suggestions to keep a romance steamy, right through that harmonious three-month stage and even after the 80-degree weather in San Diego changes with the turn of the seasons.
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The heart is used to express a multitude of powerful emotions
When it comes to expressing love, heart paraphernalia is almost inescapable. The heart often comes in various forms of cheesy cards, edible chocolates and a “<3” symbol in text messages. However, it is almost unusual that one would use the organ responsible for pumping blood throughout your body as a symbol to tell someone you love them.
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This new kit helps lessen the embarrassment that follows a rough night out
As dawn breaks and the sun rises, teetering stilettos trek down Montezuma Road holding up a disheveled, hot mess. The trace of morning after remnants of a woman who spent the night dancing … and drinking, can be traced by a shameful stench of stale perfume and/or cigarettes. Had she known what the night would eventually lead to, she may have packed some protection in her purse — a very important and necessary Walk of Shame Kit.
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Breakups can be emotionally draining; giving your heart to one person, confiding in them your deepest secrets, talking to them every day, then suddenly they turn into a complete stranger. The close ties and emotional investments you had built with that person are stripped and you’re left feeling alone and empty.
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You’ve probably done it before to be funny and cute, but this is the big league now — no time for joking around. The power of passing a “Will you go out with me? Yes or no?” note in a lecture hall must not be underestimated. We all know the cute stranger who stands out in the class of 500 people. Thing is, it’s hard to get to know anyone with the massive seat swap that occurs every class. Not only do you have to try to break the ice, but also hope they sit close to you again. It’s a mess. The answer: Just pass a note.
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After going on a blind date, you think it went well; conversation was flowing and you felt a “spark.” Days pass and you don’t get the call you expect. You ask yourself, “What did I do wrong?” The truth is you may have chased him or her away by revealing a trait that is seen as a turnoff, or maybe you just don’t have the qualities he or she is looking for. A survey evaluating San Diego State students’ turnoffs and desired qualities may give you insight as to what people look for in a mate.
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Dear Monty, I met a guy at a party last weekend and we ended up going home together. Come Monday, I find out that he is in one of my classes and I never noticed it until now. Should I talk to him or pretend like nothing ever happened?
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Religion is complicated. Religion and relationships are even more complicated. It is present in the media, political debates and even on campuses around the globe. Some of us may believe in a religion and go to church on a regular basis, while others are content with living a spiritual life without the gathering of a congregation. Either way, religion will always be a part of our world in some shape or form.
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It’s no secret that online dating is a thriving business. As the current economy continues to break people’s hearts, online dating companies are helping to mend them with promises of love and more importantly, happiness.
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Have you ever needed romantic advice but couldn’t find the right person to talk to? You knew your best friend wouldn’t understand and, to everyone else, you felt like a walking burden? Well, The Daily Aztec is here to listen to any and all of your relationship issues and give you thoughtful advice.
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Revealing too much of your personal history can possibly cause problems
aThere comes a time in most serious relationships where three very scary words must be uttered. No, they don’t involve the “L” word. Instead they are more along the lines of … “I’ve got baggage.”
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Missed Connections can help people see what they might have missed out on
PHILADELPHIA — He talked to her for only two minutes, a quick conversation as she pulled her bags from the train’s overhead compartment and waited to squeeze her way through the aisle.
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We all know that when it comes to relationships, conflict is always bound to arise. Whether it be a trivial tiff over who left the milk out or an all-out brawl where pots and pans are being thrown, disagreements are inevitable. But how do we know when enough is enough? How do we differentiate between the arguments that are constructive for the well-being of a relationship and the ones that are destructive to a romantic bond and the people involved?
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Say what? No, really, say exactly what you’re thinking. It’s one of the most difficult things for people in relationships to do: Communicate — well. Whether you consider yourself the queen of “beating around the bush” or the king of “silent treatment,” it is likely you are both a perpetrator and a victim of unstable relationship communication.
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Infections from sex can be an awkward, but important topic
Remember the awkward sex talk your parents tried to have with you during high school? Convincing you that abstinence was the way to go may have been a thoughtful idea, but it is certainly not realistic for everyone. The reality is that many young adults are sexually active even though they know little about practicing safe sex, or the realities of sexually transmitted diseases, which are clinically considered infections, or STIs.
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This time “Dear Monty” is for the men! You heard me, every question and answer given below are strictly by men and for men who often find themselves pondering, “What in the world do women want?” It must be difficult making two trips to the market because you forgot the pulp in the orange juice or the fat free part of the milk.
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I absolutely love Christmas time. I love decorating and baking an exorbitant amount of cookies and spiced breads that are undoubtedly not to be found anywhere on the food pyramid. My dad and I start using Baileys as our coffee creamer because, let’s face it, it goes along with the holiday spirit. And of course, I enjoy having an entire month to rid myself of tests, lectures and those lovely attendance sheets. You definitely cannot put a price tag on that.
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Winter vacation could help make or break a relationship
In less than a week, classes will be over and every student will walk away from the San Diego State campus to enjoy the month-long break. Although holidays are coming and “it’s the most wonderful time of the year,” the vacation is not always that great. Some relationships might have to pause for a while, because the couple doesn’t live in the same place, has to travel to see family or is just going on vacation.
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In light of the current economy, I feel it’s only necessary to address the common misconception that a date means free dinner. If you’re like me and enjoy romanticized company and affection but don’t have the necessary resources for countless dates, then you’ll appreciate my ingenuity and creative thinking — dates don’t need to be expensive!
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Newspaper writers strive to bring in experts as sources for their columns, while others have discovered the ultimate specialist known as www.Ask.com. As my first Dating and Romance column and in my ongoing effort to be awarded a Pulitzer Prize for excellence in newspaper journalism, I thought I’d try and get a hold of the “Dear Abby” advice columnist or Dr. Drew Pinsky. If I became desperate, I’d look to Dr. Phil McGraw as a source.
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DTR — This acronym sends chills up my spine. “Why,” you ask? Because “Defining The Relationship” isn’t an easy task. Dating can be hard enough without all the terminology adding stress into the mix.
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There is nothing pleasant about it. Getting your heart broken is on par with getting punched in the chest by Shaquille O’Neal and having your heart covered in Bengay at the same time. But alas, sooner or later it happens to all of us.
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Did you ever need romantic advice but couldn’t find the right person to talk to? You knew your best friend wouldn’t understand and to everyone else you felt like a walking burden? Well, The Daily Aztec is here to listen to any and all of your relationship issues and give you thoughtful advice.
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Of all the roles that are typically filled by two individuals in any given college relationship, there is seemingly one that holds more weight and has greater consequences than the others: “Whipping,” holding the “upper hand,” “wearing the pants” — whatever you want to call it.
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I once read a quote that gave my skeptical brain waves a run for their money. It’s said, “It is better to be told a hurtful truth than to be told a comforting lie.”
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It is a sunny Saturday afternoon, your bed is made and last night’s hangover has finally worn off. In its wake, all that is left is the pleasant glow that can only come from a great date and even better sex.
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I was sitting at my favorite pizza restaurant of all time a couple of weekends ago, happily chowing down on a mouthwatering slice of buffalo chicken pizza and an ice-cold mug of Hoegaarden. Olde City Grill, you are undoubtedly my hero.
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It amazes me that I want to try skydiving, but I lack enough confidence to approach a guy I’m interested in to ask for his number, much less smile at him. I can’t even fathom the idea of making the first move.
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College provides many firsts for students: the first time living away from home, the first time going to frat parties, and for some, the first time trying to maintain a long-distance relationship. Temptation lurks everywhere, and with so many new people and experiences around, it is difficult to preserve a relationship in a new environment when one’s significant other does not get to experience it with him or her.
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You’re walking downtown with your sweet, hot babe, hand in hand, and she pulls away. Now you’re waiting in line to see a movie and she folds her arms in front of her. If you haven’t guessed it already, something’s wrong — I repeat, something is wrong.
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I don’t know if it was because I had spent an entire day inside my house without seeing the light of day — thank you, strep throat — or if it was that I had watched the entire first season of “Californication” and felt sorry for poor old Hank Moody. Whatever the case may be, my head ran off without me that day.
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Everyone can agree that the first date should not consist of offering up your life story. That would be too abrupt. Take it slow. You should create a bond first that establishes feelings for each other. Once that's built, you can touch base on some of the deep and personal stuff. Unfortunately, there are questions and conversations that aren't conjured up on dates that should be explored.
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Superhero movies are extremely popular. “The Dark Knight” has even inspired some men to talk with deeper voices or buy faster cars (not really, but you get the idea). I don’t know one man who hasn’t wanted to put on a spandex uniform, charge out of the window and save the day. Men feel that superheroes depict the alpha and the omega — a real man.
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I’ve never really understood the concept of the phrase “I think we should take some time apart.” Granted, I myself have uttered these very words, partly without knowledge of what exactly I even meant by it. This made me wonder what is implied exactly by the phrase of going on a “break”. Does this mean we are just friends? Does it mean that it’s OK if we go out and hookup with other people? Does it mean that we can go to Taco Tuesday, throw back a handful of Coronas, wind up in bed together and then act like everything is just peachy, seeing as how we’ve already slept together a billion times before?
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The “L” word is scary. You never know when you should say it or if the other person even feels the same way. Honestly, just thinking about those three little words makes my stomach churn. So what is this love we speak of?
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As much as I hate admitting this, I would definitely have to define myself as a rather high maintenance girlie-girl. I like buying a million shades of makeup that I use on rare occasions, spending entirely too much money on a single pair of jeans, getting my nails done every couple of weeks, getting my hair did and wanting to cry when I see the hole in my wallet afterward - yep, I am undoubtedly a Grade A girl.
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Every woman desires confidence, power, success and...an unbelievable sex life. Well, why wouldn't we? Anytime we turn on the television, "Sex and the City," "Lipstick Jungle" or "Grey's Anatomy" automatically shove these women's amazing sex lives in our faces.
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I remember my third girlfriend like it was yesterday. Before and after my classes, I would find her just to be with her. She was on my mind all the time. I liked her as much as a fat kid likes cake.
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